Is it possible to find a partner, a life mate in the form a person who is a great looking person but not really knowing anything else about them? At some point the beauty fades and it is that person who decides what is the foundation of the relationship.
Fantasy is more alluring than the reality, more seductive. But it’s the connection, the willingness to become one with another despite their character flaws ( and yours) and be together. I’m not saying it’s not impossible to find an absolutely gorgeous person and find yourself compatible subsequently. I’m just saying it’s very hard to separate love and lust.
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